Ruin Is A Gift.. Ruin is the road to transformation

Ruin is a gift,

Ruin is the road to transformation...

The quotes that bring me back to myself again as I watched that movie for hundred times I guess. 'Eat Pray Love'  

         Life is a road. You started the journey since you've been born. As you walked, you planned everything ahead of your destination. So perfectly planned hoping you reached your destination. However, once in a lifetime, we face a situation so difficult, that we started to lose our self along the journey. Stray away so far away from what's been planned. then suddenly the road changes. Not what we've been planned all our life. Suddenly everything's ruin and all we feel is hopeless. lost. afraid. sadness. that we started to question ourself;  has your life been badly planned? is there any plan to get back to what you wanted? some people just can't stand of how much it hurt to lose all that they ever dream of. Everything ruin in a blink of eyes that you wished u didn't see. Some just giving up living as what we wanted would never be the same again. Without you knowing you back to the very beginning of the road.

Sometimes we stop so long watching the road. feeling too late to continue. afraid you would never finish till the end. Maybe life just doesn't go as we planned. maybe life is just accepting, learning every single things that come along the way of your road. maybe life is just unplannedable. the only things that stop you is ; can you let things to transform to a very new things that lead you to yourself right back up again?